You don’t have to grieve your beloved pet alone

Join a gentle, compassionate community of grieving pet parents and find belonging, comfort and connection with people who truly understand pet loss.

With support from The National Lottery Community Fund,
we’re making pet loss support more accessible across the UK.

Pet loss grief is real grief‍ ‍

We’re so sorry for your loss. We know how much it hurts.

Losing a beloved pet can be one of the most heartbreaking experiences you'll ever face.

Because they were never just a pet.

They were family, comfort, routine, a safe space and unconditional love. 

It can be just as painful as losing a human loved one, yet many grieving pet parents are made to feel their grief is “less than” or misunderstood by the people around them.

You don't have to go through this alone.

Here, you don’t need to explain why it hurts so much. We understand because we’ve lived it too.

Even if the world doesn’t get it, we do.
Built from lived experience. Shaped by the people we support. Trusted by grieving pet parents.
      - you are not alone -        

How we support you

There's no right or wrong way to navigate grief, and there's no timeline for it.

I've learnt that grief isn't one-size-fits-all, so neither is the support.

That's why we offer different ways to find comfort, connection, and understanding. Whether you're looking for a place to talk, somewhere to connect with others who get it, or simply reassurance that you're not alone, we're here for you.

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WEEKLY

Small peer support sessions where you don't have to pretend you're OK. A safe space to share how you're feeling with other grieving pet parents who get it.

Online Support Sessions


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MONTHLY

Gentle walks by the sea or in nature where you can connect with other grieving pet parents who understand the heartbreak of losing a beloved companion.

In-Person Meetups


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ONGOING

A supportive community that's always within reach, where you can find connection and understanding whenever grief feels heavy or you simply need to know you're not alone.

Private WhatsApp Community


Every service is designed to help people feel seen, heard, understood and like they belong.

Created by a grieving pet parent, for grieving pet parents

 — why we exist —

After losing my beloved Yorkshire Terrier, Tilly, in 2023, I experienced first-hand how isolating and painful pet loss can be. I wanted somewhere I could talk openly about my grief and feel seen and understood.

I needed to know I wasn't alone. 

I wanted to be with other grieving pet parents who got it, but I couldn't find the kind of support I needed.

So I created the Pet Loss Support Group.

Today, grieving pet parents across the UK find comfort, connection and understanding through our online support sessions, in-person meetups and a compassionate community of people who get it.

A place where you don't have to pretend you're OK

— what online support feels like -

We know what it's like when the people around you don't fully understand your grief. When you're expected to carry on, be strong, or somehow be ‘over it’ by now.

It hurts, and it feels like no one around you gets it. 

We get it. We've lived it too.

That's why our online support sessions exist.

Here, you don't need to explain why it hurts so much or apologise for your tears. You don't need to pretend you're coping when you're not.

You can finally let out a sigh of relief and grieve however you need to.

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We know how painful it can be when others don't understand the depth of your grief or the bond you shared with your beloved pet.

In our community, there's no judgement, no pressure and no expectations. Just kindness, compassion and a safe space to be exactly as you are.

Whether you choose to share your story or simply listen, you'll be with other grieving pet parents who understand.

Most people leave feeling a little lighter, less alone and comforted by the connection they've found with others who really get it. 

Our sessions are a gentle place to return to when grief feels heavy and you need a reminder that you’re not alone.

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Ready to take a gentle first step?

You don't need to have the right words. You don't even need to feel ready. 

Whether you're feeling heartbroken, overwhelmed, alone or simply exhausted from carrying your grief, you're welcome exactly as you are.

You can share as much or as little as you'd like, or simply listen. There's no pressure to talk if you're not ready.

Whenever you're ready, we’ll be here. 

Our support is free to access thanks to generous donations and support from The National Lottery Community Fund.

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“The Pet Loss Support Group has been the single most important thing I’ve done to help me through the loss of my cat. It’s been a lifesaver for me.”

- Rich lost Bear, his Maine Coon cat, in August 2024

Hear from our community

Real stories from people who found comfort, connection and belonging through our community and realised they were no longer alone.

The community no grieving pet parent ever wanted to need, but one they shouldn’t have to be without. 

Not sure if a session feels right for you yet?

That's OK. It's natural to feel nervous before joining your first session, especially when your grief still feels raw and overwhelming. 

Take your time exploring our FAQs and hearing from other grieving pet parents who once felt the same way.

We hope it helps you feel a little more at ease and reminds you that you don't have to go through this alone.

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